Friday, September 12, 2008

ALOHA!

Thursday evening we enjoyed a beautiful Hawaiian Luau with, my Father in Law, Mont, who is 86 years young and lives in a retirement living center. The food and entertainment was wonderful, brought back many wonderful memories for him of the times when he and my mother in law, Grace lived on Molokai and the Big Island in the beautiful Islands of Hawaii.

My DH and his dad enjoying luscious food.

My husband and his dad enjoying their dinner. He made it back in town during the afternoon in time so we could attend the Luau with Grandpa. Grandpa sure has made wonderful friends and really seems to enjoy living there with all the fun activities. Mostly playing bingo and shooting a good game of pool. He hasn't talked them into building a horseshoe pit YET....!!! He has three gold ribbons from the Senior games and holds the world record of in the Games getting the most ringers in a game. (He made 35 ringers out of 40! ) So he would love it if they would put in a horse shoe pit!
They had beautiful music and they opened the program with gorgeous patriotic music in tribute to all those who lost their lives on 9/11 and also for the soldiers and their families who are still fighting for our peace.
There were beautiful, graceful dancers who entertained and mesmerized us. Boy, they could shake their booties.


The food was wonderful! Lots of fresh fruit, Lomei salmon, pasta and veggie salads, Mahi Mahi, Pulled Pork, Teriaki Chicken and a whole roasted pork for sliced pork and so much more to choose from. They had plenty of beautiful desserts and breads to choose from. Yummy! ,I could eat this way every night!

During dinner he was so sweet and got up from the other side of table from where he and my husband were sitting and brought over a pink lei and took it from his neck and placed it around my neck and gave me a kiss on the cheek and told me he loved me. He had tears in eyes and I really appreciated this simple act of kindness and action of love he offered to me. You see, he is truly is a guys type of guy and only having sons of his own hasn't always related to his 4 daughters in law. So this hasn't happened to me very many times in 38 years of marriage to his son. He has been gracious and loving though, he hasn't demonstrated it. This was a special moment to me.
The only thing that could have been better were if his sweet and beloved wife, Grace could have been there and enjoyed the wonderful music with us. She passed away last year after a long battle of Alzheimer's. Mont cared for her all but the last month of her life. She loved beautiful colors and dancers amd there were plenty of both. She sure is missed by us all. She always loved the beautiful Hawaiian music. The live band last night was reminiscent of the beautiful big Hawaiian Hotel Bands.
Aloha!

13 comments:

Nanette Merrill said...

What a lovely thing to do. The food looks amazing.

nikkicrumpet said...

THat is such a sweet story. I'm sure it was a moment you'll treasure. The food looks delicious...all that fresh fruit is making me hungry! It looks like a really great place for him to enjoy his golden years.

Barbara said...

Good food and a touching moment. What a nice way to pass the time.

Anonymous said...

What a special day. Oh my the food looks good. I could almost bath in that amountof fruit salad. mmm so want to eat some fresh pineapple right now. :-)

So sweet of your Father in Law. I'm glad he had a great day. He seems to live in a place which really cares for its elderly.

Anonymous said...

How nice that you care so for him, and he for you. I only got to know my father-in-law for a year before he died. He actually valued my old-fashioned housewifeness, unlike many men these days who think if you don't work outside the home, you don't work. I miss him.
Brenda

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to say how much I enjoy
your blog. A wish of mine would be to
have my sister closer we could have such
fun. It's also wonderful what your Father
in law gave to you on that day very
heartwarming.

~Niki~ said...

What fun you all had! And yummy food to boot!

Nicole said...

What a sweet moment. Everthing looks wonderful, how nice to know that he is in such a good place being well taken care of. That food looks incredible, makes me with I was in Hawaii.

The Berry's Patch said...

Auntie,

What a sweet story. It's sometime hard to relate to father-in-laws. What a unforgettable moment you had with yours. He sounds like such a sweet man. Boy my father could play horseshoes for hours if his arm muscles would allow it.

Have a good evening. Brandee :-)

Nicole said...

Just wanted to let you know that you could definitely make the dipped pretzels in advance. I think they would keep well in good sealable container. Good luck, let me know if you have any questions.

Anonymous said...

What fun! Hawaiian Luaus are always festive and enjoyable. It seems like your FIL lives in a fabulous community. It sounds like he has lots of fun, too! Of course the "booty shaking girls" may not be the smartest thing here......lol! The Hawaiian theme is a favorite of mine...makes me miss the islands, too!
It is great that these type places exsist. My great aunt (who is 93)lives in one in Birmingham and loves it. I think it keeps older people from being so lonely and keeps them active.
Hope you are having a great week,
Jen

Michelle said...

Wow - what a beautiful story about a such a special occasion! It's so nice that all of you enjoyed such a wonderful time. Thanks for sharing, especially about the touching moment between you and your father-in-law :) That food looks like it was absolutely delicious!

Happy Wednesday to you!

P.S. Thanks so much for being so encouraging to me...it's appreciated!

Anonymous said...

Wow...that looks like FUN FUN FUN!!!!

i always wanted to learn how to shake my hips that fast!!!!! I THINK SPENCER WOULD HAVE A HEART ATTACK!!!!!! ♥♥♥